i have watched ynr 32 years ..i remember it was my senior year and after we graduated me and my best friend at the time , we had been besties ever since 6th grade went to the local college and i couldn't hang so i quit going but she kept going and i forget which class it was but she came to my house one day after getting out screaming that i will never ever guess who was in her class and she got teamed up with for the semester to work with and i couldn't guess but she made me keep guessing for almost a half hour until she couldnt take it any longer and she said ok sit down for this one and i had no idea what or who she was talking about and i didn't know the actors real names at that time and she says omg omg this semester i am teamed up with joshua morrow and i was like ok great and she grabs my shoulder and said thats all you got is great. and she said oh ok wait aka nick newman and i was like what , shut up and she said no seriously she was right i met him and we all hung out a few times. one of the nicest people on earth he is so thats how long ive been watching this soap. sure some stories are ok others aren't and this whole connor and ocd thing is one of the not so great ones. i had ocd my whole life i don't remember ever not really having it. and some days it was a full time job just doing the repetition of things. it was a horrible thing to live with there were many nights i just wanted to cry and i did alot. and if something happened that would make things so much worse. i remember the northridge earthquake in i think 1994 , i would say for a whole year i would wake up and if something triggered me i would have to do some repetition over and over or else in my head the big one was going to happen and we were all going to die. but the thing there getting wrong is most everyone i know that has had it they arent doing the motions in front of others like they have connor doing. its way more hidden..and no one talks about it really because if you don't have it you don't understand what it is like for one moment. i just think they are going over board with it all and alot of things they are doing is a trigger for alot of people that have it. i never went to thearpy long i just didn't buy into the whole mindfullness and just stop doing it for a little bit and after a week stop longer that never worked for me. i just figureed it was with me for life. however i got pregnant all was good but when i had my son he was born with spina bifida and other medical issues and without me even realizing it until about 6 months had past i hadn't been doing any of the things i used to do prior to having him. i was literally so busy with doctor visits and his health and just being a mom that i didn't have any time to worry about anything else and that was 24 years ago and its never came back. now there have been times where i would find myself thinking well that didn't go right lets do it again and i am strong enough to tell myself no we are not going down that road again and knock on wood or thank god im good and have moved on from it but i still remember the hell it was for all those years...
They talk about alot more stuff these days then they did back then.. Back then things were hidden and a hush hush sitiuation. I am wondering though why they have not put connor on any type of medication. Such as anxiety meds it would help calm that down some . Jmo.
AP- Meds should be but these days if you go to a place like that.. 9 times out of ten thats the first thing they want to do. Instead of finding other ways to help.
I am 70 years old and never have I ever seen this forum turn so hateful on some days with the name calling. I know it has to be a troll. Thank you Issy for your summation and being so transparent. It is a discussion that people do not want to talk about because of the name calling and being made fun of. Please have taken their lives over this. It is a subject matter that I'm sure Y&R thought about for awhile, because it is a touchy matter. Glen, that poor child has Adam's dark side and his mother's history of mental illness. I hope for a positive outcome. I love the positive reflections, but the name calling from the trolling that is done is so ugly. Probably, if we ignore the hateful verbiage, maybe the message will be taken? Or, maybe Bob can delete the message. What really got to me today was the "R" word for Connor. I understand this is a daytime show, but Y&R at some point will bring up issues and struggles that people go through in everyday life. Those of us who do not experience those struggles cannot relate. Just like today. I used to work for an agency that changed from the use of the "R" word and instead replaced the term “mental retardation” with “intellectual disability”. This change reflects the widespread adoption of the term “intellectual disability” by Congress, government agencies, and various public and private organizations. For more information read: https://www.spreadtheword.global/resource-archive/r-word-effects
Grammy, ignore is exactly what I've been doing for months to those seeking attention by being nasty and outrageous. I wish everyone would ignore them, then maybe they'd go spread their 'joy' somewhere else. Have a good night. ;)
The boy who plays Connor Is very good...I'm hoping that the writers don't have him go through what his Mom went through and they let him decide to get the right help....good episode... thank you Bob ❤️
Claire had an odd look on her face in that room while the others were talking. I so not trust her at all and would NEVER let her near my little boy. she is still evil I think and we'll find out I guess....
Nikki, Claire and Victoria taunting Jordan lmao
ReplyDeleteIs she really dead, or did she pull a Phyllis?
DeleteI don't think Shes dead.
DeleteRumor has it Jordon is the next Shelia.
DeleteThey should of brought Sharon, Phyllis, a fireplace poker, and a rug along.
Deletei think it's just another ruse to escape.
DeleteI think Jordan is not dead, she is just asleep and they left her but she will escape and come back!
DeleteIssy Sheila's body wasn't even cold this time and they brought her back.
ReplyDeletei have watched ynr 32 years ..i remember it was my senior year and after we graduated me and my best friend at the time , we had been besties ever since 6th grade went to the local college and i couldn't hang so i quit going but she kept going and i forget which class it was but she came to my house one day after getting out screaming that i will never ever guess who was in her class and she got teamed up with for the semester to work with and i couldn't guess but she made me keep guessing for almost a half hour until she couldnt take it any longer and she said ok sit down for this one and i had no idea what or who she was talking about and i didn't know the actors real names at that time and she says omg omg this semester i am teamed up with joshua morrow and i was like ok great and she grabs my shoulder and said thats all you got is great. and she said oh ok wait aka nick newman and i was like what , shut up and she said no seriously she was right i met him and we all hung out a few times. one of the nicest people on earth he is so thats how long ive been watching this soap. sure some stories are ok others aren't and this whole connor and ocd thing is one of the not so great ones. i had ocd my whole life i don't remember ever not really having it. and some days it was a full time job just doing the repetition of things. it was a horrible thing to live with there were many nights i just wanted to cry and i did alot. and if something happened that would make things so much worse. i remember the northridge earthquake in i think 1994 , i would say for a whole year i would wake up and if something triggered me i would have to do some repetition over and over or else in my head the big one was going to happen and we were all going to die. but the thing there getting wrong is most everyone i know that has had it they arent doing the motions in front of others like they have connor doing. its way more hidden..and no one talks about it really because if you don't have it you don't understand what it is like for one moment. i just think they are going over board with it all and alot of things they are doing is a trigger for alot of people that have it. i never went to thearpy long i just didn't buy into the whole mindfullness and just stop doing it for a little bit and after a week stop longer that never worked for me. i just figureed it was with me for life. however i got pregnant all was good but when i had my son he was born with spina bifida and other medical issues and without me even realizing it until about 6 months had past i hadn't been doing any of the things i used to do prior to having him. i was literally so busy with doctor visits and his health and just being a mom that i didn't have any time to worry about anything else and that was 24 years ago and its never came back. now there have been times where i would find myself thinking well that didn't go right lets do it again and i am strong enough to tell myself no we are not going down that road again and knock on wood or thank god im good and have moved on from it but i still remember the hell it was for all those years...
ReplyDeleteI'm happy that you seemed to have conquered it. I have a little touch of it myself.
DeleteThey talk about alot more stuff these days then they did back then.. Back then things were hidden and a hush hush sitiuation. I am wondering though why they have not put connor on any type of medication. Such as anxiety meds it would help calm that down some . Jmo.
DeleteIsabella, maybe that's coming. Could be the doctor wants to try other things before putting him meds?
DeleteMeds are meant as a last resort fir anything, as they should be.
DeleteGlen thats possible but normally thats what they do right off the bat.
DeleteAP- Meds should be but these days if you go to a place like that.. 9 times out of ten thats the first thing they want to do. Instead of finding other ways to help.
DeleteYea big pharma AND doctors need to be reigned in so badly.
DeleteThank you Bob ❤️
ReplyDeleteI am 70 years old and never have I ever seen this forum turn so hateful on some days with the name calling. I know it has to be a troll. Thank you Issy for your summation and being so transparent. It is a discussion that people do not want to talk about because of the name calling and being made fun of. Please have taken their lives over this. It is a subject matter that I'm sure Y&R thought about for awhile, because it is a touchy matter. Glen, that poor child has Adam's dark side and his mother's history of mental illness. I hope for a positive outcome. I love the positive reflections, but the name calling from the trolling that is done is so ugly. Probably, if we ignore the hateful verbiage, maybe the message will be taken? Or, maybe Bob can delete the message. What really got to me today was the "R" word for Connor. I understand this is a daytime show, but Y&R at some point will bring up issues and struggles that people go through in everyday life. Those of us who do not experience those struggles cannot relate. Just like today. I used to work for an agency that changed from the use of the "R" word and instead replaced the term “mental retardation” with “intellectual disability”. This change reflects the widespread adoption of the term “intellectual disability” by Congress, government agencies, and various public and private organizations.
ReplyDeleteFor more information read:
https://www.spreadtheword.global/resource-archive/r-word-effects
Grammy, ignore is exactly what I've been doing for months to those seeking attention by being nasty and outrageous. I wish everyone would ignore them, then maybe they'd go spread their 'joy' somewhere else. Have a good night. ;)
DeleteGrammy , YW I actually report it to google blog. I have been for months. I will continue to do it as well. Agreed with you Glen ..
DeleteThe spammer blocker is now working.
DeleteThe young man playing Connor is an excellent actor and very belie
Deletevable!
The actor playing Connor is really doing an excellent job at portraying a young boy with OCD.
ReplyDeleteHe is a good young actor.
DeleteCompletely agree Betty.
DeleteThe boy who plays Connor, Judah Mackey is 13 He just had his 13 birthday in december.
DeleteIsabella,
DeleteImpressive, thanks for the info.
The boy who plays Connor Is very good...I'm hoping that the writers don't have him go through what his Mom went through and they let him decide to get the right help....good episode... thank you Bob ❤️
ReplyDeleteI'd have Adam and Chelsea go to Victor and ask him to hire the people Connor needs and let him live at the ranch getting the help he needs there.
DeleteClaire had an odd look on her face in that room while the others were talking. I so not trust her at all and would NEVER let her near my little boy. she is still evil I think and we'll find out I guess....
ReplyDeleteA spoiler that i saw from 3 days ago said Calire is on track to become Harrisons new nany "Will Summer be jellous of her new Cousin".
ReplyDeleteThank you all for the love and encouragement! Have a great weekend! :-)
ReplyDeleteWhy has the post been removed - please reinstate it!! Thanks
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